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Almost Over….

Aside from the other post i can’t believe this year is almost over…. i don’t know where i’ll be in 2 yrs from now on but i did accomplished so many tasks this year alone i couldn’t be prouder…. i do want to write about little bit of update on everything aka the guy i had been writing about, the job, the life…. i know i said i’m not going to write about him anymore but i think before the year end i should one last time….

i hope this year had been good to you guys…. would love to hear about your accomplishments and your goals…..


what would you do?

what would you do IF….

-your current job is better than your last job but u know this is not the company you want to retired?

-you have coworker who ALWAYS say negative things about other coworkers & tell you not talk to them but very friendly toward them herself?

-you have coworker(the same one) who you know you can’t avoid talking to but felt like everything you said will get twisted and said back to the other coworkers & managers?

-you have to work overtime with NO PAID?

-you felt trap in the tall cubicle?

-you don’t hate your job yet but you felt like mentally tired because of your responsibility?

-you have no time to write your random thought on wordpress?

-you felt like some people in life seem like they’re nice but deep down you know in your heart they’re sabotaging you?


LIFE IS A BITCH isn’t it?

Where am I?

It had been so long since I actually write about my life. I can’t get into this site from my job. Yes I know. I m surprise myself it is happening as well. From day one i can’t get into the site. I miss writing. I miss discovering someone else blog. How can they be blocking sites? I can’t even read my daily news. Yes my favorite news site are not displaying correctly. None of the site are blocked as in you can’t type the site name. The format and font even picture are not displaying correctly. It mean goodbye news, goodbye writing. I read an article once & actually I think several people had pointed out to me that people are more productive if they have break between their work. That is one thing I miss about my old job. Not only I was working but I also discover alot about myself. Somehow i felt like I don’t know myself anymore. I can’t see the window, the cubicle are high = I m not going to know anyone here. Is this what I want in life? No window to look at. No news from outside world to read. My phone internet can only take me alittle. Not fast enough to know what is going on. The small screen can only provide limited information.

We all have to start our career somewhere right?

The right decision….

Today I finally realized I did make the right decision by quitting….. there is so much details involved but believe me people are leaving left and right here(not because they wanted to–i don’t know the whole details)….  In a way i think eventually I would have been let go instead I took a chance & said I’m quitting….

Believe me when I said it i felt like my voice was shaking…. i know myself…. the tone was my voice was nervous and still doubting myself did i make a right decision… Now I know…. I did make a right decision… I’m not sure it’s just me but I just read an article when is the time to let go of your job…. such a perfect timing to read the article…. either way…. last day…. Aidos!

Excited, Nervous, Scared—-that’s all i’m feeling right now but in a good way…. =)  Have a great weekends…..


it’s half way through the week already….. i felt like time is going fast and there is nothing i can do to stop the time even for a second…. i might as well stop & smell the roses along the way and enjoy my life…..  i must admit for this time of the year the weather is good compare to other years…. this is just random post but i do want to thanks to some of you who left comments…. i did get a chance to read them all…. i still haven’t had a chance to browse myself with different feature on word press…. i haven’t had a chance to read most people post on the site either except the one that are freshly pressed….  if there is specific topic u guys are more interested in i’ll be more than happy to write about it….

i seem to be writing about relationship topic lately…. my daily new post is based on what happen the day i’m writing or the day before…. so it’s random…. this is more like my own diary….. have u guys ever save term paper or essay from Middle School, High School or even College?  i do save some random paper & every time i looked back i love how my handwriting have change over the years…. i love to read what i wrote & laughed/learned at my own mistakes i made on the paper….i do hope one day i read back all those posts i wrote and all the heartache trouble i was feeling & be able to laugh about it….

on a separate note—- i do miss traveling…. since my brand new job =) will be starting next week i’m not going to have time to travel much till next year…. but it seem like it’s for the best considering i’m broke…. i might as well save some cash for myself for the holiday….. i’m counting down the time to leave work…. have a fabulous day!

Other side of the Globe…

i had been reading this series of book where main character lives in Europe aka London…. now i’m crazy in love with Europe and want to see what life is like there…. call me crazy i’m now regretting not typing “Jobs in Europe” in my Google bar….. damn it….. but i do need to save some $ for myself if i happen to move there…. awww everything does work out in the end….

here is a little tip for anyone who is reading this….. definitely do research before u move to another country…. believe me even within the States different part of the States do thing differently…. it doesn’t hurt to know their habit and the way they do things….. another task u need to do is go visit the country first to see if u going to like living there….. i visited places other countries past 2 yrs…. i must say even with people raving about “this is amazing —- u can’t find this anywhere else”  even with all the positive reviews and their own personal experiences stories mine was different…. i love visiting but i know i wouldn’t like living there…. why bother moving to a country where u know u r not going to enjoy it…. it helps if u have a chance to visit the country first and see for yourself…. when u visit for u also have an ideas which neighborhood u want to live in….. finding a place where u feel comfortable is the main challenge if u r going to rent or find a roommate…..

anyways…. now i’m in this zone where i’m reading more about Europe and what is like living there….. one crazy adventure at a time…. have a fabulous weekend! =)

Letting go

I haven’t written much about love life lately since there is nothing to write about…. i figure since i’m focusing on my career i should just write more on jobs or work related topics…..

Have you ever had  coworker/s or managers who want u to do something but they afraid of letting go of the project or task?  well i have….. they don’t want to do it even though it doesn’t make sense as to why they don’t want to do it themselves….. well let’s back up…. let’s say they want ABC task for you to do but they afraid of completely letting go of the project to be your…. they always want a hand on it…. that is the main problem in many workplace in my opinion….. people want to go up they want to move on and do better/bigger project but they are afraid of letting go of the small tasks…..

Disclaimer:  *I’m pointing out from my own experiences from my previous jobs and current jobs….I’m not saying it’s completely true in all the workplace*

They think if you do it you’ll learn more and eventually u will be competing with them or simply afraid if the bigger project didn’t work out for them they’ll at least have back up….. however way u look at it the more project are in your hand even though u are not actually doing anything your name will be on it = more $ bonus time?  i guess as time goes on you have to let go of some of the work you’re doing…. u have to trust another person that will do a good job on the project…. all about balancing…..