basically my friend decided to not to join me last minutes to one of the destination i’m traveling… it would have been good if i had known from beginning… i have more time to see if i can go other places & do more research aka applying visa… now it’s getting close & i don’t have time to do much research let alone apply for visa..the whole day i had been doing research on what i should do there, would i be ok going there alone… i travelled before but not alone at least one person was with me…. on some level i felt ok getting lost but it’s different story when u r in foreign country where u don’t speak their language… i want to make sure i know how to get from point A to B…

long story short i was doing a bit of research earlier but later she mentioned knowing people there and it would be ok.. we don’t even need to worry about hotels till we get there.. we will figure out from there.. now i’m left to find hotels & getting around town… i have four choices:  1) not go & stay at one destination she is currently living 2)  go with travel package   3) asked her if i can get contact information of the people she knows(very last resort) 4) go ALONE!

would it be rude if i choose to go with #3?  i mean i should have known better… beginning she was the one who told me let’s go to this destination.. later said she can’t make it..i said ok maybe i’ll go since the place she is at i only need to be there 3 days max to  sight see… that was when i was browsing around hotels but later she said yea lets.. i said ok.. then she said no & later in that week or the following weeks she said yes again… i’m not kidding she went back & forth about at least 5 or 6 times.. i should have known better to look at other destinations aside from visiting her… i didn’t really do much research since i was so stress from work…

she suggested travel package & i had been looking today but i’m not liking it… it’s much expensive than i’m hoping to pay for top that off with number of places i would be sightseeing if i go alone…  what should i do?  i definitely don’t want to choose #1… after paying that much $ for plane tickets it would be useless… i would end up spending more $ just being in one place & going shopping every day….  what would you do?

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