this weekend i was reading a book & the character in the book mentioned how she loves her husband more than he loves her.. every time they have the discussion about this even though she knew he loves her but somehow she felt she always is the one who love him more… well when they’re going through the divorce she was hurt… she was hurt more than he did because she loves him more.. in every relationship there’s going to be always* someone who loves the other one more… in this situation she wrote she was the one so while they’re going through the divorce she was a mess..

in a way it’s true.. there’re people who may or may not agree with this… every relationship either a guy or a girl loves the other person more… u can’t say it’s equal… there’s no way to measure this… it’s suck to be the one who loves more.. u ended up hurting, worrying more… i think it’s better to be the one who loves less… that way u don’t end up hurting… even though i’m writing this i never was the one who loves less.. i was always the one who loves more…

i saw this kmovie yesterday where the main character a girl got married to this guy who loves her so much… u can tell from day 1 he was in love w/her more than she is.. fast forward they got married & she falls in love w/another guy… she told him.. he was devastated & he loves her so much he was ok w/the affair.. BUT she said it’s not an affair.. she actually loves him as much as she loves her husband (him)… she wants to get marry to the other guy.. the other guy wasn’t even into the ideas of getting marry she was the one who asking him to marry her.. the husband was even more devastated when she mentioned the husband was the one who let her see how good the marriage is.. ouch!

so he loves her so much to the fact he lets her marry to another guy… another guy married her even though he wasn’t keen on the ideas of marriage cuz he loves her so much.. in this situation you can clearly see who loves who more.. when you loves someone so much you would never do that kind of stunt.. back to the movie… he grew jealous when she got pregnant.. she said it’s the husband’s baby.. but there’s no way of knowing.. the husband wants the baby so bad to be his…  get this the husband family & the other guy family had no clues about any of this.. when the baby was born the husband went to go see the baby.. the other guy was there too… he was the narrator in the movie… he said he is jealous he doesn’t want to share this moment.. it’s true it’s not one of those moment you want to share other than your family.. well what is more sad is when the next day he went to go see the baby in the hospital again.. that time the other guy’s family came to see the baby.. he ended up having to introduce himself as the woman’s cousin… ='( so sad.. what even more sad is that when the other guy’s mom said the baby girl look just like her son when he was young..

he was trying to get the baby’s hair after that incident so he can test to see if the baby was his.. the wife found out she was upset… geez woman! i don’t understand this @ all… he have the right to know… don’t you think?  well he was trying to stopped her from leaving since she was upset about this.. she slipped while holding the baby & he was trying to save both of them.. instead of her getting hurt, he ended up getting hurt & ended up in the hospital.. so while the husband #1 was in the hospital.. the husband #2 come to the husband #1 house to take care of the baby.. reason? cuz the other house got cats since baby was so young she don’t want the baby to be near the cats.. husband #1 was upset but there’s nothing he can do.. he got cast on his legs & can barely walk…

fast forward the baby is going to turn to 1 yr old i can’t remember… but they’re going to have the bday celebration.. i forgot to mentioned the wife name the baby after the husband #1 favorite soccer player.. he was excited & happy but he was doubting the other guy likes soccer too.. her reason she loves soccer & both the husbands love soccer.. but the other guy doesn’t have favorite player.. that’s why… days before the baby bday celebration husband #1 coworkers found out all about this.. apparently  there was an article in the magazine & it got pics of the wife & husband #2 & the baby.. it was written about them… the coworkers felt sorry for him not knowing the husband already knew about this.. he was angry that there was an article.. so he went out to get the divorce paper done (that was the second time he go get the divorce paper) he went out the 1st time after she told him she wants to marry the other guy.. but he ended up ripping the paper in front of her since he knows he love her so much he rather have her marry another guy & still come see him…

well husband #1 got a chance to celebrate the baby’s bday 1st afterward he had to drive her & baby to husband #2… when husband #2’s family was celebrating the bday he came in & then the wife was surprise… right then the baby girl called husband #1 “daddy” =(  he said “yea i’m ur dad”  everyone was surprise..  he gave her the divorce paper… then he turned around to say to everyone that she is his wife & that’s his baby.. the wife got mad & walked out w/the baby.. he followed her but she left..he felt so lonely w/out her.. the other guy was too.. husband #2 explains to her she got no ideas about the article @ first since it was his cousin who wrote it.. he knew the baby wasn’t his since beginning cuz they use birth control… it was all her ideas.. he wanted to name the baby something else but she insisted on that name for her.. husband #1 was surprise…i’m thinking could all this mean she loves him more than the other guy?  that’s the only explanation.. but why on earth would she do this to him from the beginning.. throughout the whole movie u can see every time she left the house because when they were dating she come home late at night & they argued she left but he was the one who ended up calling her.. she never did..even when the husband doesn’t agree to her about getting marry to another guy she left the house when he asked her to choose…he was the one who ended up going after her & taking her back…u can’t help who u fall in love w/but it’s cruel to do that to both of the guys.. well husband #1 came to accept #2 & later the wife sent both of them the tickets to come see the soccer game w/the baby.. they both went & see the game w/her.. that was the end…

wow! u don’t see that kind of movie.. i know i’m typing a lot.. but most of the time u see where the guy was the one who is doing it.. not the girl… the movie shows how one person would go extra length to be w/someone who he loves dearly & accept all her flaws.. i’m sure there’s some women out there who knew about the husband’s affair & still accept him… they don’t want to let go of the husbands.. they love him so much.. sad but true… i would never accept that kind of behavior.. i would never do that either… obviously both husband loves the woman so much to the point they had to accept the other husband.. only toward the end of the movie when husband #2 explaining i realized maybe deep down she do love the husband #1 a little more.. or could it be bc she married the husband #1 first that she wants to have the baby w/him 1st?  well i guess we’ll never know…she seems to treat both of them equally… i never see husband #2 side of the story…husband #1 was explaining how he was feeling & what he is going through… feel bad for the baby most.. if this was the real in life can u imagine when the baby go to school what is her school mate is going to say?  what is the neighbors are going to say?

Sorry about long post but some cases like this it’s always better to be the one who loves less so u don’t end up hurting @ the end…

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