i had really interesting conversation this weekend.. it’s about what else RELATIONSHIP… i feel like i should write relationship column… i started this blog to write my thought..the more i looked back & read my own blog the more i realized i’m writing more toward relationship than anything else for that matter…lol..

this weekend i was talking to someone & we started talking about how comfortable is it to hang out with someone whom u had a crush in the past… well the person i spoke with said he felt uncomfortable @ first since the girl rejected him @ the beginning…but he is now somewhat friend with her fiance…since it’s close knit group they’re bound to run into each other… he felt fine to be in the situation being friend with both of them now…but it was hard at the beginning…

My take:  i could never be friend with someone who i had previously had a crush on… i was never similar situation as him (only because i would never put myself in a situation — i would hang out with other groups)..i do know someone whom currently seeing or not seeing the previous guy i was seeing… i could never be friend with that girl… part of me know she know & i always felt like every time she asked me a question she’s being curious… she wants to know what is going on w/my love life… over mean over… i don’t want to know what is going on his love life.. i felt uncomfortable.. i felt somewhat sad or disappointed… i know for a fact no matter how good looking or not good looking the other girl is i’ll always feel JEALOUS… yes i admitted… i’ll always felt jealous of the other girl… every little thing even going together for a dinner i don’t want to hear it… i’m never ever i repeat never ever could be a friend with the other girl… i would never go out of my way to reach out to her to be friend… if i see her i would say “hi” other than that i would never hang out with her.. am i wrong?  i don’t know.. i’m dealing with the way i know how…

But i do know someone who want to keep in touch w/the ex gf.. yes it’s complicated to explain.. here’s the story.. there was a mutual guy & well let’s say both girls are not w/him anymore.. i know one of the girl very well.. every time we’re somewhere & we happen to run into the guy ex(other girl).. the girl i know very well reach out & asked her so many questions in a obvious way.. it’s to that point i’m stepping back & looking at her.. did she realized what she doing?  is she jealous of her… is she comparing the other girl life to her own life?  to answer all those questions “YES” how did i know?  well she never admitted being jealous to the other girl… but she did asked me afterward “is that girl pretty? do u think she’s good-looking?” i think that’s pretty much summarized everything..

What is ur take?

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